My Earliest Memory #227
My father carries me to the coat rack.
We fetch my white-and-orange teddy coat or cape with fastening strings with white pompons attached to them.
He then walks with me on his arm to the neighbouring house where my aunts live and they meet us at the hind door.
They fasten the strings, while I am still on my father’s arm and make a fuss over me laughing and talking, like you do with a little child.
I know we were on our way to the hospital, to visit my mother who was there after the birth of my little sister.
A second, but fonder memory, is of my grandfather who died when I was 18 months old.
He had ALS (a muscle wasting disease which kills in the course of a few years) and in the end, he could only swallow food with great effort.
Because of that, he would only eat pudding, ice cream or fluids
and got very thin.
I remember that my grandfather always gave me from his glass bowl of vanilla ice cream.
And that he gave me the whipped cream off of his coffee.
I remember standing at his right side and that my mother said something along the lines that I should not eat all of his food away, but he and my grandmother insisted that it wasn’t a nuisance.
I don’t remember the exact words, but I remember the situation and how he always sat in the green chair with the high back.
My grandfather was a war hero, a righteous among the nations, and died when he was only 66 years old.
Submitted by Gesine Weckmann. She saysof her first memory: “My sister was born when I was 15 months old, to the day. I have recollected this memory as a child because I had a doll with an orange-and-white teddy jacket. Seeing the jacket one day, the memory came back and I asked my mother if I had had a teddy coat in those colours during the time my sister was born. She has confirmed that this was the case. No photographs exist of me in this coat, so that I am positive that the memory is genuine.”
Of her second memory: “It has been confirmed by my mother that the image I have in mind is genuine: the tall chair, the ice cream and coffee with whipped cream on top.
“I have a few more fragments of memory from before the age of 2 and I very consistently remember my childhood from the age of about 2,5.
“My memories from Kindergarten are no less vivid and coherent then those from my first day at work.”